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Survivor mode

August 31, 2007

Lesson learnt today really shows that when you are desperate and the "survivor" mode kicks in, your brain works in such a devious way. Well, I had forgotten to bring my wallet and I had just stuffed my ezlink in my bag. However, it was pay day so I figured that I will be able to draw the money and use it. BUT....... as fate would have it, I arrived at the train station with my ezlink below zero value and not a cent on me. All I had was my mobile and a cheque! Grrr... So, called mum and she couldnt help cause she was at home. Called dad and still couldnt figure what to do.. .So, while talking on the phone, I realized that the gantry for the handicapped and those carrying bulky items, closes very slowly. So, with swoop, I took out my zero value ezlink card and pretended to tap. - wala! I'm in.

- Adrenaline rush! Now.. how do I get out? - I guess the same way I got in. I arrived at Toa Payoh and saw a few people heading towards the gantry and so I did my same magic and got outta there! hehehe

Lets hope I don't get caught on camera.

Fireworks Festival 2007

August 28, 2007

Its been really rainy lately. Every duck's favourite time of year. Doesn't matter really cause I like it. :)

I'm in the office alone. Everyone is out of town. So, I'm mending the office for a few days. I'm feeling a little freaked out really.. I think its my mind playing games. So to keep the freakiness out, I'm playing "There you'll be" - Faith Hill. At least it kills the silence. Boo!
Well, 2 weeks ago, my friends and I caught the fireworks festival at the Esplanade. We were lucky that we got there early and managed to get a good spot to sit while waiting for the fireworks to start. I must say it was waaay better than the National Day fireworks. THAT one was an endless battle to beat the police before the cordoned off some areas... grrr!

Anyway, while waiting, we saw the epitome of love. haha well, not really but it was a perfect picture to send it to " Stories of Love" . Don't you think? :) ( hMM...it looked better in real life )

And here's everyone that was there -

Start of Something New

August 13, 2007

I'M BACK!

Hey everyone.. Its the start of something new for me. If you've been reading my blog, you'll know that I have been talking and fussing about my final year project. Guess what?! Its finally over and done with! Yes, today is the deadline. It's on its way to the good hands of my lecturer to read.

Well, there's so many things to update about! Its getting exciting.

But, before I begin, I want to share with you a video that I came across recently. I think its really moving. I got it from a newsletter that I subscribed months ago, but I forgot about it. Well anyway, its from a website called SimpleTruths.com and here's the link to the video that I think is worth sharing http://www.thedashmovie.com

Ok, that's all for now. I'll post more tomorrow.

Happy Birthday

July 18, 2007

Today is my 23rd Birthday.
How time flies huh... Honestly, I feel like I'm just 20 :) A big thank you to those who wished me a Happy Birthday. Thank you so much.

Well, I couldn't really sit back and enjoy the day cause it is sandwiched between exams. I had a paper yesterday and a one day break (which is today) before my last paper tomorrow. Nonetheless, mum, dad and me went to have lunch in JB. We had pasta and it was yum! I had Classic Carbonara. Cheese, beef bacon and button mushroom!

Quick lunch and we headed back home so I could continue my revision.
By the way, celebration started the night before in JB with my favourite burger ramly :) The sweetest part was when Taufiq called and sang Happy Birthday to me while he's in camp.

Anyway, it feels like a new beginning of better and brighter things ahead for me. I'm beginning to learn that I need to let go of the past and live in the now and not forgetting to thank people who have made made me happy and sad, cause without which, I wouldn't learn the lessons that I needed to learn and be the person I want to be. I'm not so bitter anymore, so thank you.
I've had this revelation cause I watched Oprah and she was talking about "The Secret" - Law of Attraction. Recommended - www.thesecret.tv

Opps.. I forgot! I don't have a pen for my exam tomorrow !

 

July 14 , 2007

Since I haven't been working these past week due to an exam break, I have been watching the Ellen Degeneres Show every morning at 9am on Starworld and again at 9.30am on Channel 5. But here was something that Ellen mentioned on her show that I thought was food for thought. She said, she don't know why people always put off their ideas thinking that there is surely a better idea thought by someone out there, and their own idea is never good enough. You should NEVER put down an idea because EVERYTHING around you like your shoes, your clothes and seats came from an IDEA.

So think about it, the next time you have an idea, be it great or not, ACT on it! Then at least, after you have taken action, you would know how far your idea would take you to.

PS : Mi, Take action in your wonderful ideas!

 

July 10, 2007

Since my previous post, we went for another durian fest at the seletar dam on Saturday.

So, Saturday was the much awaited 7 July 2007 aka 070707. I read that it is a really auspicious day, and in America there was an increase in the number of people who decided to tie the knot on 070707. On a usual Saturday in July the number of people who got married would be about 10,000, BUT last Saturday, it was reported that there was 38,000 who got hitched! That's an increase by 28,000. WOW! It also coincided with Live Earth. The global call for aid . That was why I am seen wearing green in the pix.

I have started my leave from work cause I have exams starting next Tue. It will be my last 2 papers. So, I have managed to drag my butt to the study table to go through the papers.. By the way, It's accounting. Well, ok I didn't exactly dread it. I mean it will be the last time that I have to mug for a paper and it will be the last time that I have to sit for a school exam. It marks the closing of 16 years of formal education!

I got distracted from mugging, that's why I'm writing this post.

Saada has been well since her surgery last Thursday :) She's hole-y now. hehe. Going to meet up with her this week to do some revision.

Well, going to spend some more time on the pc and continue with my revision. In the mean time, I came across this vid of a kitten, and she looks like the cutest thing. Enjoy!

Cute Kitten Video Here

Happy Birthday Lelah
(us, back in the days

The 4th of July + Durian Fest

July 04 , 2007

Its the 4th of July and I was invited to a "4th of July" makan-makan at my workplace. Every year, 4th of July would only mean fireworks at the nearby naval base for me. Its a night which would be spent at home because I get to see fireworks from my house. Well, in Singapore, the only other times that you get to see fireworks would be National Day, New Year's Eve and 4th of July! :) So, anyway, we had an All American meal from burgers to mac and cheese which was yum btw.

That's David and Kitt grilling the burgers

(I'm very appreciative that they bothered to make sure the food was halal for me)

I think I ate too much mac and cheese, thus I was stuffed! Seriously.. Full. Bernice made chocolate cake and ice cream which yummy too but I was too full...

There! Can you see the mac and cheese?!

The weather was just perfect for the outdoor gathering. Cool and breezy.

So I met Mum at Kallang to head home with my aunt. Somewhere near home, they decided to look at some durians and guess what??....... My aunt bought some and we decided to eat it under the block! hehe - Adventure-

Picked Dad up from home and we settled under the block at my aunts place. To think that we could actually eat at her home! hehe Still, brought down water and tissues and newspaper so that we could have a more comfortable environment.

Everyone taking their places to start with the durian fest.

Even the cat wanted some part of the action.

I think we're going to have one more 'Durian Fest' sooon!

Ok, got to rest now.. too stuffed and too tired. :p

A Truly Inspiring Story

June 25, 2007

Her name is Ladan Lashkari, and when I say she’s a young woman, that’s an understatement. At just 20 years old, she has a youthful look that defies the maturity she’s developed in such a short time.

I suppose in the online world, youthful success is not entirely unusual. The fact that she’s a girl making money on the internet becomes much more significant when you realize where she comes from. She lives in Iran. Ladan was born and raised in Tehran, Iran, and lives there to this day.

There are political, economical, and religious obstacles that make it difficult for anyone to be a successful internet marketer in Iran, and in most cases even more difficult for a woman to do so.

With respect for Ladan, I’m not going to get into the details of the specific political and religious barriers that many women face in Iran, but just be aware that this story runs even deeper than I’m able to write about.

If internet marketing was a wrestling match, she’s starting the competition with one hand tied behind her back simply because of the place she was born into the world.

Next obstacle: the language barrier.

Although you wouldn’t know it from her articles and sales letters, Ladan was not born into an English-speaking family. She started learning the language at eight years of age, and devoured every English book she could get her hands on.

Even at such a young age, she began to realize that her fluency in English would open up more doors of opportunity throughout her life. Throughout her teen years, this fervor grew as she tackled the language head-on.

A true entrepreneur, she decided that she wanted to become independent and produce her own income. When her family bought a computer, she quickly began experimenting with ways she could turn it into an income stream.

She tried all kinds of business; teaching Windows, graphic designing with PhotoShop, website design, and even learned C++ programming.

Even though she was able to make money through those avenues, she knew that there was a bigger opportunity out there.

At sixteen years of age, she discovered the world of internet marketing through the late Cory Rudl’s website. She bought and studied his internet marketing course, along with other ebooks and resources.

She knew right away that THIS was the business she wanted to be in.

Her friends and family tried to convince her that becoming a successful internet marketer in Iran would be IMPOSSIBLE, and that she shouldn’t continue to waste her money. If you’ve ever faced the negative energy of friends and family, you’ll understand that it’s a powerful force that can quench your enthusiasm and ultimately abort the launch of a new business.

Fortunately, her father believed in her, and the resistance of others made her more determined than ever to find success.

After about a year of learning and studying the business, she launched her first website, and the rest—as they say—is history. But that history has not been without its fair share of bumps and valleys.

Jumping into business forced her to take her English proficiency to a new level. For a long time it was difficult to read and comprehend the many technically-oriented ebooks that she acquired.
And if reading comprehension was a challenge, writing was an even bigger issue.

It would take her six hours to write and proofread an article, but her determination paid off. Today if you search for her name on a search engine, you’ll find a slew of her articles indexed all over the internet.

And as if writing weren’t enough, she wanted to write her own sales copy. Anyone who’s ever successfully written a sales letter will concur that being a good writer doesn’t make someone a good copywriter.

I’m amazed to say that Ladan is a good copywriter. Being a copywriter myself, I wouldn’t say that if it weren’t true. She applied the same vigor to learning the craft, as she applied to learning the language itself.

She studied articles and courses from the top copywriters, and practiced until she had developed her own style. While there is obviously some innate talent at work here, I’d say that she is also a testament that copywriting CAN be learned.

Starting her business was the beginning of a long uphill battle.

Because of the US embargo on Iran, she faces obstacles that most of us wouldn’t imagine. As I mentioned, her culture has already tied one hand behind her back. The language barrier effectively tied the other one. And the following problems essentially tied her feet…a situation that would cripple most marketers and paralyze them from moving forward in business.

Most people wouldn’t jump into a new business with their hands and feet tied. It’s impossible, right? Just don’t use the word “impossible” around Ladan…

To start with, she couldn’t get a credit card. That makes it pretty tough to buy anything online, wouldn’t you say?

My business relies on my credit cards for many things. Not a day goes by without several business-related charges to my credit card. As I think about it, many of the products and services that I use come from sites that ONLY accept credit cards.

She can’t open a PayPal account. Again, this limits her ability to make online purchases. It also rules her out of participating in a large number of affiliate programs that only pay commissions via PayPal.

Of course probably the biggest disadvantage of not having a PayPal account is not being able to accept PayPal payments. She estimates that this one issue is costing her many thousands of dollars in lost sales.

She can’t get a merchant account, so it becomes very difficult to sell anything online.

She can’t have a bank account in US dollars. So that rules out another possibility of making or receiving payments.

To make matters worse, she can’t have any bank account that accepts wire transfers. This cripples her ability to receive payments from affiliate programs to her bank account, or from merchant services for her own products. So even if she can find a way to sell a product online, getting that money into her own hands is a huge obstacle.

She can’t cash any USD checks. That rules out most of the other affiliate programs.

She can’t travel. It’s almost impossible for her to get a visa to travel outside of Iran. This means that she has not been able to go abroad to attempt to open up accounts, and she can not attend any internet marketing seminars.

Those are just some of the barriers created by the embargo. There are many more limitations imposed by the Iranian government.

On top of these physical barriers, she also faces another kind of discrimination that continues to this day.

In a business built upon online image and perceived trust, she has been severely disadvantaged by the way much of the world views Iranians.

As she puts it, “the reactions are not very pleasant.”

She thinks it’s mainly due to the way the media has portrayed Iran and Islam. This has made it difficult to be open and build relationships online, as she has found that even her own subscribers, customers, and business associates look at her differently when they discover she is from Iran.

She says, “some people even act like I am a terrorist”.

She has received “hate” emails through her websites and also on forums.

“I know who I am and where I stand,” says Ladan, “but what the media shows the world and what my country’s government does has nothing to do with me. So I just wish people in the west – especially the United States - would understand this difference.”

Let me ask you a few questions…

Do you have a credit card?

Do you have a PayPal account?

Can you open a US bank account?

Can you receive US checks?

Do you have the freedom to travel?

Could you go to an internet marketing seminar?

Maybe you didn’t answer “Yes” to ALL of those questions, but for EACH question you answered “yes” to, you are starting one step ahead of Ladan.

Let me ask you a couple more questions…

Are you fluent in English?

If you said “Yes”, take two more steps ahead.

Do people view you as a terrorist?

No? Take three more steps ahead.

If this girl can do it, so can YOU. It doesn’t matter how old or young you are…it doesn’t matter where you live in the world… it doesn’t matter what other internal and external factors are trying to hold you down.

You CAN succeed.

In spite of all her challenges, Ladan views internet marketing as an easy opportunity to take advantage of, and she encourages others to do as she has done…

“I think there’s nothing hard about it. It’s the perfect kind of business for people who want to be independent and work for themselves in a business that there’s no limit to your success.”

If you’re just getting started, she has more advice:

“When you are just getting started, you should know it might take some time to make the amount of money you expect, and you should keep on and don’t give up - no matter how people around you try to disappoint you. I think this is the most important and difficult part… it’s where most people give up.”

In the three short years that she’s been in business, she’s worked hard and implemented many strategies that she’s learned by studying other successful marketers.

Out of everything she’s tried, she deems list-building as the most important component of her business:

“Nothing is more powerful than building a targeted responsive list and building a relationship with that list.”

While her income may not yet be on par with the internet marketing superstars, she’s earning a living online that would impress even those of us living in a more generous economy (she recently earned $6300 USD in a month).

The thing that must be kept in mind is that she is making more money than about 95% of the people in her country, and bringing home more income than her countrymen who have 30+ years of experience in their careers.

I’d love to see what she’d be capable of achieving outside the restraints of her county, and so would she, which is one reason she is considering a move to a locale more conducive of her business—such as Canada or Australia.

She says the biggest key to success is: “Believing in yourself, and promising yourself that you WILL reach your goals and won’t let anything or anyone stop you.”

When I asked her what makes her different from those who fail, she said that her success is derived from her persistence in facing and overcoming challenges and obstacles.

She points out one of her favorite quotes from Ross Perot:

“Most people give up just when they’re about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game, one foot from a winning touchdown.”

When she’s not working on her business, she enjoys reading self-improvement books (who would have guessed?), dancing, watching movies, spending time in nature, and going out with friends.

In other words, she’s just a normal girl with big plans and an indomitable positive attitude.
Today she has more than 20 websites, and she hopes to expand her business by 400% while continuing to help others find their own success.

You can learn more about Ladan and her business here...

As Ladan says:

“If a young girl who got started when she was only 16 years old, with no previous business experience, with English being her second language, with less than $30 to her name, in a country where you can’t have a credit card or PayPal account and is under a strict embargo from United States, and so much more limitations…

If such a girl can succeed, how is it possible that YOU can’t succeed - while you may not even have one of these limitations?”

Ladan will never give up.

I hope you don’t either.

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Ladan Lashkari wrote a fantastic post about time management : How to Have 72 Hours Everyday. Click on the link and it might just help you :)

Is network marketing dead?

June 24, 2007

There are a lot of people out there who are still unaware that network marketing has made some people rich and free. They are either ignorant to the fact that people are actually making money through network marketing or they turned a blind eye to it. Either way, they have not been exposed to enough information about network marketing. Although, I must point out that there is no get rich quick scheme, but there is a get rich quicker scheme.

Network marketing has been around for quite awhile and it has been getting larger and more lucrative every year. However, with the internet, there is now internet marketing. It is similar to network marketing, but it just uses the internet to reach out to the buyers. Network marketing or internet marketing is like having your own mini business. A “Plan B”. It is easy to set up and has low running costs as compared to the traditional “brick-and-mortar” business. The appeal of low costs and low maintenance attracts business minded people who want to try their hand at a business.

It is imperative that when setting up your business, you will need to provide value for money products or services to your buyers. This creates a trust and buyers are more likely to recommend you to other potential buyers. As you and I know, word of mouth advertising is very powerful. So, be sure that you do a good background check about the company that you want to partner with. Ensure that they are credible and will not shut down their business tomorrow. It is an added bonus if they have a physical office in your country so that they can provide you with the support needed.

The best part about internet marketing is that, you have the ability to create you business and watch it grow all in the comfort of your own home. There is no need for you to go for meetings and meet clients or prospects, because with internet marketing, the prospect comes to you.

Don’t get easily despaired if you don’t see success in the first few months. Just keep trying and tweaking what you are doing. Evaluate what is right and wrong. You don’t expect to lose weight after one day of dieting right? Same thing here. Have a goal and a plan to work towards it.

Click on my link to learn more about internet marketing